The other night I was tossing something around in my head.  Going back and forth, “well, I kinda feel this way, but then there’s this.” (I’d be more specific, but that’s a little too personal). I realized I’d been grappling with this issue for days, perhaps even weeks!  That’s a lot of time and mental energy spent on something that wasn’t getting any closer to being resolved.  And why?  Because I don’t have a solution.  I’m trying to use my will in an area of my life that isn’t up to me.  And why isn’t it?? Because it’s not about me!  It’s about someone else and I have no control over that person or anyone else.   When I realized I was getting myself…